Friday, January 8, 2021

No Judgement here

I confess I can be pretty judgmental.  I make judgements about people with expensive cars, fancy jewelry, handbags and clothing as well as basically anything I don't think I can afford.  I know its wrong.  The Bible says not to judge others by outward appearances.  But I know I do it a fair bit, often without even realizing it. I confess this to God frequently but surely not as often as needed.  Perhaps that is why I am a little embarrassed about this. 


I have been investing time and money in Color Street Nail products.  I affectionately call them my nail stickers but according to the website it is 100% nail polish strips that you apply with no dry time and smudging. And the nature of it allows you to have intricate designs without an art degree.  

For a little background and "justification" on my part. I haven't painted my fingernails in years and years, just my toe nails.  When my friend sent me a set of tie dye Color Street nail strips, I might have rolled my eyes.  I finally applied them because she was coming for a visit.  What a surprise to find how fun and uplifting the little design was. So I ordered a couple of other sets.  Then a friend was having a "party" and I bought more. Officially the term is a Nail Bar but I was raised on Tupperware so I call it a party and the nail stylist my dealer. Shortly after that a friend text telling me that she was ordering some and next thing you know I was ordering more. And an addiction was born.

Yes, I feel a bit guilty and embarrassed.  You remember I have the problem of judging people for spending money on things I consider non essential.   I judge myself on spending money on something for myself. So I justify.  I tell myself that I don't spend money on make up and my hair is low maintenance.  My clothes are all thrift store and clearance purchased. I buy discounted food and use coupons everywhere.  Even with Color Street I usually always use the buy 3 get one free deal so that there is a saving element involved.  Could the money I spend on Color Street be put in savings or sent to orphans?  Absolutely! None the less there is something about the silly things that just make me happy.  I love seeing my fancy little nails on my fingers. And they have such fun names!!  Currently I am wearing "Ice Ice Maybe."  Last week it was a mix of "Berlin it to Win it" and "Fort Worth It."   In the midst of Life's turmoil, worry and stress there is something cheerful about my pretty little fingernails. And in the scheme of things, the amount I spend is considerably lesser than many other stress relievers and pampering experiences I could choose. So I have decided at this point that as long as I am not neglecting other obligations, tossing a few dollars at this uplifting splurge is really ok.  No judgment.

Going back to having to be thrifty, I was motivated to have a Color Street Party when I saw this month's hostess gift.  Not one but two sets of a really pretty exclusive nail color called "life of the party."  Add to that the potential of other savings and  it IS my birthday month, I decided I would have a Color Street Nail Bar disguised as an online birthday party.  The event will take place via Facebook Thursday January 14th at 8:30 PM.  If you want to participate, and I haven't already sent you an invite, just let me know.. The event itself is following and commenting on active posting for about 30 minutes. There are prizes!  It can even be done while you are multitasking.  If the event does not appeal or you do not have Facebook, I have a link to Color Street that benefits me should you order. https://www.colorstreet.com/kimbarnett/party/2231739  

Let me clarify that I REALLY do not want anyone to feel pressure.  I don't want anyone buying something that they have no interest in nor the resources for.  And I am warning you, if you get started you may love it too and find yourself throwing yourself your own nail bar disguised as a "party."  Which ever way you go, there is no judgment here,

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